Best messages to send on online dating sites
Some respond well to cocky, edgy openers some see right through that and call you out. Drone- this is the hardest for me because these girls want to keep everything boring and their profiles give you nothing to work with.Ultimately 90% of it comes down to what you look like. Just cuts the bullshit since all that matters most the time is your look. I'm black and the majority of the women on each site weren't. I try to pick out one incongruent detail and hope that she will emerge from her shell. Just gets things going in a more interesting way than "hey".
I just try to get their attention in the first message instead of writing a long winded specific message about something in their profile.
She had like 5-6 lines total on OKC but it doesn't matter.
Here it is: Now, when a girl visits your profile before you check theirs out I always send: "Hey!
You're attractive, in their age range, and live near them). As others have mentioned, it really comes down to looks.
That's why I stay away from the cute, silly openers. No girl is going to want to go out with some weird looking guy just because he has a witty opener.